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Curiosity versus Insecurity driven learning


My working space at my Tokyo residence

I think learning/growth in most individuals can originate from two sources, namely, curiosity-driven and insecurity-driven learning processes.
Let me first talk about curiosity-driven learning, herein, a mind is self-directed, focused on personal goals, and uses the available knowledge to succeed in their goal. Moreover, the mindset is driven by intrinsic thoughts, with a motivation of growth and free from external pressure or comparison. Such an approach fosters originality, leading to the development of unique ideas and work.
In contrast, an insecure mind more often follows others, always seeks external validation and avoids risks, leading to a path defined by external influences rather than personal aspirations. It is mostly guided by induced thoughts, moreover, ideas are shaped by the expectations and achievements of others. With this mindset, we may have career growth, but we may lose the authenticity and the originality. However, there can be an alternate view to it, I do not dismiss another view.

A good example of these two mindsets is as follows: a curious mindset is like a person running a marathon with enthusiasm, driven by the excitement of reaching a destination out of curiosity. In contrast, an insecure mindset is like a person running the same marathon distance but motivated by the need for security, as if they are being chased— by someone, here it's their own insecurities.
As I mentioned, these views are based on my personal experience and encounters with people who struggle with imposter syndrome and overthink a lot. Their learning and growth trajectory is driven by the thought of competition, consequently forgetting what they actually want to achieve.

PS: This is my personal view.


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